Monday, May 18, 2009
He's Just NOT That Into You...
Just saw this movie yesterday. It made me wake up (as should other girls too ... ) to the reality that guys have their own minds and to control them would just push them to get more elusive, intended or not.
The film starred Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore and Jennifer Connelly.
I particularly like the part where Gigi is extrapolating the Exception and the No-Exception rule... Bottom line is, if you are fated to end up with each other then you will end up with each other. Nothing can break you apart. Even if time separates you. Commitment does not always mean getting married. It has got something to do with the willingness of one party (or both) to work to make the relationship work without being told and without being coerced, just do things out of one's own free will, no binds whatsoever.
If you have time, this film is a must see.
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A friend over-reacted... Girl, you know that I am still on your side. My point here is don't rush things. They will just eventually fall into place. Now, if it did not happen the way you wanted it to, then it was not meant to be. Who knows, he could come back after 5 or 10 or 15 years. That, will make you an exception. For now, stop rushing things and live one day at a time.
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i sooooo love this movie. I can watch this over and over and over again and not tire of it!
Lesson I learned from the movie (and from how men are) is that men will pursue IF they are interested. If they are not, then forget about it.. you will never get that date with him or if you've gone out for a first date, there won't be any succeeding ones. Men pursue, and it is the women who need to wait. :)
yup... the more you build your world around them, the more the want to run. :) So, be scarce. It works wonders.
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